July 26, 2016
I cannot believe you were born 10 days ago. It simultaneously feels like a lifetime ago and the blink of an eye. I’ve already told you how I wish time would stop. Part of me is just scared that people will forget about how important you are or that they will fail to understand that it still hurts so badly. Your Daddy and I will never forget you and will never forget how important you are to us. You made us parents and you are our son.
I left the house today by choice (not for a doctor). Daddy and I went to the Squam Marketplace in Holderness. I was trying to be strong for you and I did alright at first. I picked some wine and browsed a bit while Daddy ordered our sandwiches. I had forgotten that the store sold onesies that matched our T-shirts (yes – we accidentally wore matching T-shirts from where we got lunch). I avoided that section but got upset when I remembered. Then I realized there were little boys all over the shop and got too upset to stay. Jealousy is not cute, but I was sad and angry that we would never get to be those families. Your daddy comforted me (as always) and took me home.
I did my best to keep busy. I learned two more of the stitches I need for our rainbow embroidery. French knots are SO hard for me, but I will keep practicing. I also started practicing with the Dremel! My first “I” was pretty rough. Things seemed to improve when I tried cursive. I wish I had better handwriting. I will probably make at least twenty signs before I start to think they are good enough. I had been feeling this sense of urgency on these projects, but am realizing it is better to really practice and make them as nice as you deserve.
I just hope wherever you are you can feel how much I love and miss you – your Daddy too. Goodnight, sweet baby.
Love you the most,
P.S. Daddy and I looked at the stars for a bit tonight. We know you’re out there.